3 Things to Do Before Moving In Together

Author: PeopleFinders on May 19th, 2020
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Moving in with a partner is a big commitment. You need to make sure you’re ready for anything and everything that might come your way. After all, if things go south, you’re going to have to essentially re-frame everything you’re doing right now.

For many people, it’s also a step that solidifies commitment. You may not be married to your partner, but moving in together still merges your lives in a very real way. That’s why you need to make sure you’ve taken a step back and looked at all the other important things before making that all-important move.

Three things you should do before taking the plunge:

  • Communicate, communicate, communicate
  • Figure out the money
  • Check out the neighborhood of your shared home

Talk About It, a Lot

This isn’t something you should do on a whim. Moving in with anyone is a big deal. Moving in with a romantic partner is even more so. Whether you’ve lived with partners before, or this is your first time, you should make sure you know why you’re doing it, why they’re doing it, and what each of your intentions is in regards to the relationship in general.

Ideally, you should have at least a few months of talking about things before you pack up and move. Recognize that you should both be equally excited to take this leap. If you feel like your partner is pushing you into it before you’re ready, or you realize that he or she seems reluctant to move into this next step in the relationship, back off and do some more soul searching.

Hammer Out Finances

No one likes to talk about money, but it’s crucial if you’re going to live with your partner. When you get married, your finances may combine by default; the things you own, your partner may also sort of own. But that may not apply if you’re just living together. (You’ll want to check the laws in your state to find out for sure.)

Are you going to combine your finances, or do you intend to keep things mostly separate? Are you going to split all the home-related costs, or are you going to each pay certain things? What about utilities, such as internet access?

Essentially, you need to determine how your finances are going to work, and you need to figure it out long before you move in. Use the few months building up to your move-in to figure out exact numbers here.

Check the Neighborhood

If you’re the one moving into your partner’s home, you need to make sure the neighborhood your partner lives in is safe. It’s true that your partner probably feels safe. But that might just be because certain warning signs are completely normal after living there for so long. Keeping yourself safe is a top priority here, and to do that, you should try and use a site like PeopleFinders.

With PeopleFinders, you can try and check to see if an address is safe. Use the address lookup tool to try and get more information about the actual property you’re going to be living in. From there, you can also attempt to look up your neighbors’ properties. Starting with that, you may also be able to access their criminal records, try to make sure there are no sex offenders living nearby, and generally try to confirm if it’s good place in which to live.


Living together before getting married can be a good way to make sure you fit together without tying the knot legally. However, although it’s much more common nowadays than it was a few decades ago, it’s still just as big of a deal.

Before you move in with your partner, check PeopleFinders to try and make sure it’s the best move for you. Read the PeopleFinders blog to learn even more ways to stay safe each day.

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